Social media and access to information at large is a “game changer” for people with disabilities and/or chronic illness. Here are just a few reasons why I believe this is true:
- Connects you to information and resources about “what ails ya”. This yields truth to the “knowledge is power” phrase.
- Provides the means to share and connect with others struggling with similar issues.
- Provides a platform for advocacy and change.
- Alleviates feelings of isolation and loneliness.
- Enables individuals to stay connected to local, national, and world news, often with unmatched accessibility to this information.
- Allows differently-abled people to shop, pay bills, etc., in an accessible, safe space (home).
- Allows everyone access to education and learning knew skills – some of it free!
I also know that social media provides an outlet for connection, fun and entertainment, and can fill some hours when sleep seems unavailable to me. Like anything, however, social media platforms can be negative and challenging as well. “TikTok creator Sarah Lockwood (@sarahthebookfiary) refers to the tendency to make everything we see online about ourselves as the “What About Me Effect” (Borresen, 2023). Sarah posted a video about this “effect” in September and it really struck a cord in me. She states, “when someone sees something that doesn’t really pertain to them, or they can’t fully relate to, and they find a way to make it about them — or try to seek out certain accommodations for their very nuanced, personalized situation, instead of recognizing that maybe they’re just not the target audience for that thing” (Lockwood, 2023).
Like any population, even individuals living with disability or chronic conditions can get caught in a self-centered web of “what about me?” I’ve seen it happen in forums where someone posted information about a means to make a certain household chore or errand more accessible when living with a disability like their own. Instead of celebrating the ingenuity, a person with similar disability might not be able to accomplish the same because of demographics, or other subtle difference in diagnosis or condition.
Please do not misunderstand my point here. Equity and inclusion are important, however “what about me?” comments interferes with free speech; for a person in a marginalized population from freely voicing their truth. It is a very simple thing to chime in with perhaps another idea that would bring valuable discussion for accessibility options for someone with a slightly different disability. As a disability blogger and advocate, I recognize that I am an individual first. My experiences are just that–MY experiences. My experience as a balance-challenged woman may mean that I have some things in common with some, but am likely more different than similar to others with balance disorders.
Let’s be supportive of each other’s stories and life truths. We can learn something even if someone’s experience is different than our own. Even within disability related platforms, not every piece of content is geared towards every single person. We are unique and our challenges and gifts often are as well.
L. Denise Portis, Ph.D.
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Borresen, K. (Oct. 12, 2023). The What About Me Effect is rampant on social media. Are you Guilty of it?. HuffPost Life section. Retrieved October 16, 2023 from https://www.huffpost.com/entry/what-about-me-effect-tik-tok-bean-soup_l_6525a8d9e4b0102e6963c51
Lockwood, S. (Sept. 14, 2023). Sarahthebookfiary [Video]. https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahthebookfairy/video/7278702404315680046